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2011-01-01T12:29:00.000-08:00

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Why Men Buy Sex Services?

2010-12-11T11:35:00.000-08:00

KOMPAS.com - Have you read the book Jakarta Undercover (2002, 2003, 2007) Emka Moamar work? What do you feel when other people know that you read the book? Do you feel like a person who "slang", knowing the reality of life following night sex businesses far outside the shadow you?
Apart from the fact that the book was written based on in-depth investigation of the author, is not there something bothering your mind, that women only as objects positioned in the book?
Jakarta Undercover, as well as other books written by the men to appoint female sex services business, clearly does not favor women, thus firmly Nori Andriyani, author of Jakarta Uncovered: Dismantle disobedience, Building a New Consciousness. "... I did not capture the idea that the phenomena they discuss is a matter of urgency. Nor is there any thought that was the cause of the problem is the men, and prostituted women are victims. In fact the opposite is more the impression that the phenomenon was something fun, "writes Nori on page 62 of his book.
A warm welcome to books that discuss sex business shows that people are now increasingly facing the problem of passive behavior that men have a habit of buying sexual services of women. Books Emka not be criticized, even more sought until published three series, and made his film.
Passivity society rampant reality sex services business is due to a patriarchal culture that has made people assume the man's behavior was reasonable. Patriarchal culture, or cultures where men have a more powerful position than women, so dominant in Indonesia. Moreover, people's lives in big cities are very individual, so what other people do not have the right interfered.
Why men use sex services paid?This question is very intriguing Nori. But he found a very simple answer: because they can. They feel they can, because they have the money to pay for it. Money creates power, in this case the form of property ownership, money, and the dominant position of women. Because of pay, he felt free to demand the types of service they want. Having money allows him to be tempted, tried, and it is not impossible to become dependent (addicted) on the sex charge.
In addition to the power factor is mainly in the form of money, the man has a 1001 justification for the buyer paid sexual services of women for the man to go in peace to enjoy plus-plus massage parlors, karaoke bawdy, spa plus-plus, and the short time at the hotel, so said Nori on page 24. Various forms of justification is essentially true one, that puts him in a dominant position, power, and hegemonic against women.
"One form of this justification is that men feel meritorious for giving benefits (cash payments) to the woman," said Nori, when discussions on Jakarta Uncovered, which took place at the offices of The Women's Research Institute, Kalibata, South Jakarta, Thursday (2 / 12 / 2010) ago. With the men wore their services, so women have jobs and income to support herself.
This way of thinking does not see the historical context of these women. The majority of these women are victims of structural poverty, as a result of an unfair system for women. For example, existing systems do not provide free education up to the level that can increase knowledge and skills as a professional worker. So, not because the women are lazy to find another job.
Nori did not agree when prostitution is called the occupation or profession. "Is that a life choice that is free? Do they really want to do it? It's not a job, but compulsion. I'm sure, no one who is proud to say, 'My profession is a whore!'" Said Women's Studies graduate of Memorial University of Newfoundland, Canada , this.
No doubt that a small portion of women may throw themselves into the business of paid sex because they want the good life the easy way. But they are still victims, the victims of capitalist culture that encourages people to be a hedonist. Capitalist system encourages people to live consumptive, as well as a merchandise may be purchased.
The historical context is the possibility that these women were victims of sex trafficking who experienced physical violence, psychological, and debt bondage. General mode is, these women are offered a great paying job overseas, but it turns out when she reached the destination country they were forced to work to give sexual services.
There are many other justifications submitted by Nori in her book. One is, the man assumes the use of paid sex services as a form of statement of the strength of brotherhood antarkaum man. Like it or not, "this is a man's world."
By joining communication forums on the Internet, the men feel they are not the only one who has a hobby of buying sex. If there are communities who use these paid sex services means that this activity is something that is commonplace. By sharing information, they can be mutually reinforcing, and may also reduce the sense of guilt. On the contrary, can brag to each other about their experiences on the internet.
Various justifications are indeed already entrenched for a long time. But it is quite possible to be dismantled. Through case studies, Nori wanted to invite his readers-men and-women to be more concerned with this problem. Again, this is not just a problem of women who become sex workers are, but our problems together. If we just do not want to care about, what about men?
Source: Jakarta Uncovered: Dismantle disobedience, Building a New Consciousness

IT'S TIME FOR PESTA PULAU PINANG!

2010-12-01T08:37:00.000-08:00

It's that time of the year again when Penang is all abuzz with fun-filled exciting activities! The annual carnival in Penang known as 'Pesta Pulau Pinang' is back again,and begins from 1st December 2010 all the way into the new year on 2nd January 2011. Organised by the Penang State Government, this carnival is carried out daily from 6pm till 11.30pm. With its tagline, 'Jom Pi Penang', this carnival features many specialties in the trade industry, culture, tourism and festivites!

Highlights of the month-long Pesta Pulau Pinang includes FREE performances by specially invited Acheh Cultural Group who will be performing on 2nd and 3rd December 2010 and the Hangzhou Acrobatic Troupe who will be performing from 9th till 13th December 2010 from 8pm till 10pm. Other than that, the carnival consists of its usual attractions and events such as Snake Lady, National Boxing Competition and Muay Thai, a Boria Competition, and a newly introduced PlayStation 3 Tournament alongside other performances of multi-cultural dances and local artistes.

Besides that, Euro Fun Park - the main attraction of the annual carnival, has a total of 19 rides this year such as Vortex, Sky Rider, Top Gun with a new ride - a roller coaster with the elements of a haunted house. So come on over to Pesta Pulau Pinang for the Euro Fun Park which has rides that are available only here in Penang! Not forgetting, Pesta Pulau Pinang's New Year Countdown to usher in the new year! Don't wait, JOM PI PENANG!

Choosing Wedding Planner

2010-11-14T11:53:00.000-08:00

Choosing the Right Wedding Planner

The wedding day will definitely be one of the most important events in the life of two people who love each other and vow to share the rest of their lives together.

This will definitely mark the start of their lifetime together. As such, it has to be perfect.

The couple must come up with ways to know the things and details that will satisfy their hearts and desire. They must know what kind of celebration and program will make them happy and thereby give them a perfect day.

Determining the desires of the heart is relatively easier. One can easily choose a theme, think of their favorite colors and even pick out their favorite flowers.

However, it is an entirely different matter to put all these ideas into action and coordinate them well to come up with a perfect celebration.

Sometimes, the challenges and requirements of considering these points can be very demanding and tiring.

The bride and the groom cannot attend to all these details on their own, considering the other things they have to attend to. It is not even a good picture to see the couple working and managing details on the day of their wedding.

This is where the wedding planner comes in.

The Wedding Planner

There are many movies that showcased a wedding planner at work. The planner takes care of managing all the aspects of the wedding, from the ordinary jobs down to the most elaborate detail of the celebration.

It is no easy task to shoulder the aches and pains of executing the whole plan. He or she will take on all the legwork needed as you go on with your usual lifestyle and focus on the more personal matters.

The wedding planner will definitely be one of your precious companions to put into action the wedding of your dreams. This is why you have to know the right way of choosing a wedding planner who will put into reality the wedding of your dreams.

How to Choose for the Right Wedding Planner?

Most couples will find themselves clueless as they venture on planning their wedding. This is not surprising, since a wedding is not something that people do on the ordinary basis.

It is indeed important to take the following considerations in choosing your ideal wedding planner.

1. Seeking the Planner

Hiring a wedding planner is just like hiring a professional for his or her services.

You will find lots of advertisements regarding wedding planners but it is best to ask your friends and relatives who have hired wedding planners themselves for referrals. Ask them for recommendations.

If you cannot get some good recommendations, you can check the classified ads or even online for a good offer from the wedding planners. Choose those whom you think are potential candidates for your consideration.

2. Interview Potential Planners

The next thing to do is to interview your chosen candidates.

You need to get a feel of what it will be like to deal with the person considering that you will spend a lot of time discussing with this person.

This will be your opportunity to see if you will get along with the person and if you can have confidence in the person who offers his or her services to you.

3. Give Out Your Ideas

It is good to know also how the wedding planner sees the vision you have in your mind for your wedding. See how he or she will be able to illustrate and concretize to you the plans and details that you are trying to point out.

Determine through this process if the person is capable enough to do the duty. Compare the different ways the candidates will answer and choose one that you feel most comfortable with.

4. Consult Your Budget

It is also good to give out your proposed budget and see if the planner is willing and capable to work out on it.

This is also a good opportunity for you to negotiate on the fees. Wedding planners generally charge 10 percent of the total wedding costs for their fee.

Conclusion

You should seriously consider the task of finding the right wedding planner. This may be your only option to put your dream wedding into reality.

Wedding Cake

2010-11-14T11:44:00.000-08:00

Wedding Cakes: Looks Good, Taste Good

A wedding cake is a traditional luscious desert shared with the guest in a wedding feast after the ceremonial rite. It is also considered as the centerpiece of the wedding banquet. It is usually large, multi-layered, and with heavy icings as decoration. Miniature figurines that represent the bride and groom more often put on top of the cake.

The tiered spire of a famous medieval church called St. Bride's in London,England gave the inspiration for the layered design of our wedding cakes.

The wedding cake tradition originated back during the medieval era. It is required of for each one of the wedding guest to bring a petite cake. These cakes would be stacked up and arranged in layers. These stacks of cakes would ultimately become as one cake.

Our contemporary wedding cake is said to evolve from this traditional practice. In most all celebrations all over the world, sweets or deserts are part of any feast. It is evident in records of the ancient Roman that during wedding banquets sweets are being given away.

By tradition, it is a practice that this luscious desert was thrown, instead of being eaten, on the bride. As this is believed to surround lots of fertility blessings for the newly weds. Fortunately, this odd tradition changed, and the cake is now eaten as noticed during the couple's romantic sharing of the first slice. This stands for the formation of a new family.

Another custom in the ancient times is that the new wife serves the whole of the cake to the family of the groom. This symbolizes the transfer of the bride's domestic labor to her husband's family.

To add up to the antique custom of the olden time is the observance of the practice that the bridesmaid place a slice of wedding cake underneath her pillow while she sleeps on it, for reasons that her would-be-husband will appear in her dream. Portion of the cake can also be stock up and on the couple's first wedding anniversary or on the occasion of the christening of their firstborn child.

These days people don't see the connection of the wedding cake with having plenty of offsprings. But instead the wedding cake has turn out to be the first meal shared by the bride and groom. Today's couples do the slicing before everyone and they feed each other. Supports that both of them will provide each other for the rest of their lives symbolize the cake cutting ceremony.

Here are among some of the fancy ideas that could be used in a wedding cake as a sign of fertility:

· Succulent fruits and fresh flowers make an attractive decoration.

· White and creamy cake is a reminder of an Italian culture, while a fruit cake if more of a Greek practice.

· A memorable piece of cake topper that is very significant in your life.

· Fondant icing, it has very smooth surface that resembles simplicity and elegance.

· Pick a favorite cake in lieu of the traditional white wedding cakes.

Wedding cakes are often viewed with its symbolic value than the enjoyment and pleasure of eating it. Today's cakes are no more the plain white ones with boring frostings; instead these cakes can be visual as well as a culinary showpiece. Lists of interesting cake icing are described to suit the couple's palate.

Buttercream is a soft and velvety butter-based frosting that can cover the whole cake representing a traditional appearance. It comes in different flavors like vanilla, chocolate, lemon, espresso, coconut, or hazelnut. A buttercream-iced cake is required to be kept in a cold place.

Royal Icing is used to make the other cake accessories such as the flowers and the other edible cake decorations. It becomes hard when it dried up.
Marzipan is a sugary, soft paste prepared from ground almonds, sugar and egg whites. It can be used beneath other icings or as a finishing frosting itself. Colors can be added on it and shaped into flowers or other decorative shapes, as a savory alternative to gum paste or sugar.

The wedding cake we are familiar with today had its beginning several hundred years ago, in a confection that celebrated the wedding ceremony of Queen Victoria's daughter in 1859. The stacked and tiered like that of a hat boxes. Wedding cake developed from there. As time passed by, a lot of enhancement had been made which contributed to what it is today. Wedding cakes these days are to a great extent more creative. It is more of a personal expression of technique and come in an assortment of figures, palate and decorations.

Garden Wedding

2010-11-14T11:21:00.000-08:00

The Perfect Garden Wedding

The wedding day is definitely one of the most important events in the life of a marrying couple. This marks the day when two people will live together as one.

There is a long lifetime to look forward to. Thus, it will definitely be a good way to start this togetherness in the best way possible. It is a must to come up with the most perfect wedding.

Weddings can vary as much as the personalities of every person differ from one another. Some can go every elegant. Some can be very expensive. Some are simple and intimate. Some are just beyond words to describe the magnificence.

This characteristic will all depend on the theme that the marrying couple will choose. As such, picking the best theme for the wedding will be very crucial in the whole success of the special celebration.

The couple must keep in mind the desires of their heart and the plans they have when they pick out the perfect wedding theme.

For brides and grooms who want to have a cozy and fun wedding celebration, then the garden wedding is the best idea.

The Garden Wedding

Setting the wedding celebration in the garden can be one of the most romantic events there will be. The location can provide a sensual atmosphere that will make the event simply elegant.

The garden serves as a good environment that makes one feel close to nature without having to leave to some far off location away from civilization. The plants, shrubs and flowers can provide enough feeling of serenity and simplicity.

This garden theme will also allow the guests of the couple to enjoy the wedding day because it can exude a cozy and intimate charm that will make movement and conversation easy and light.

How to Have the Perfect Garden Wedding

Knowing that the garden wedding theme is a perfect way to celebrate love and life with family and friends, then it is only a must to put all efforts to put this plan into a reality.

The event should be more than just another wedding. It must impress people of the celebration of love in this wedding day. Give it the effect that you will want people to remember you by.

Here are some ideas to consider.

1. Find a location that will give the basic foundations for your garden. It may be some garden where you will only be adding some details. You can also find venues that are constructed for this type of occasion.

Look for places that have stone walls or low-hanging trees. These are the typical features of a garden that will be perfect for a wedding.

2. Accentuate the place by putting details that will awe your audience. Some of the features that will give the dramatic effect you want are rock gardens, water fountains or even a small pond with colorful fish.

3. Delicate fabrics are perfect for the tables in the garden. They can create a fine texture that will complement the elegance of the venue. You can add some vintage accents to give it more character.

4. The color that you will pick for your motif can be very well combined with some cream or white that will surround the garden.

5. If you are celebrating the wedding at night, it will be great to put some lights to embellish the taller trees in the garden.

6. The bride can also freely choose the wedding gown to wear. There are, of course, certain choices that will best complement the garden setting and give out the best impression to your guests.

Old-world styles are perfect for garden weddings. You can use details like chiffon, long sleeves, empire waist gowns or Victorian lace to make your wedding gown the best attraction for the event.

7. Make sure also that you give enough attention to the ceremony of the wedding. Better yet, do the ceremony in a trellis and this can be the focal point of the event.

A trellis can be best embellished with Spanish moss and ivy. This can also be added with some fresh flowers that will complement the motif and the gown of the bride.

Conclusion

You can easily enjoy the wedding of your dreams through the garden theme. Just put your heart and soul in every detail and surely, this will be very rewarding.

Las Vegas Wedding

2010-11-14T11:10:00.000-08:00

Nine Helpful Tips that You Should Know When Getting Married in Sin City

Getting hitched in Las Vegas is nothing ordinary. It is a whole lot different from the vanilla type traditional weddings that you have probably attended. The Sin City boasts more than 120,000 weddings every year including actors and actresses, famous athletes, models and singers. If you are planning a Las Vegas wedding, you’ll be at par with some of the celebrities who got married there like Dennis Rodman and Carmen Elektra (1998) , Richard Gere and Cindy Crawford (1991), David Cassidy and Kay Lenz (1977).

Most of the weddings that occur in Las Vegas are unplanned. The couples are spontaneous and adventurous. But even if you are chasing love in a heartbeat, it is important to remember the following things before finally tying the knot.

• Wedding date. There is always a great probability that your chosen wedding date will be granted. Because there are numerous chapels abounding in Las Vegas, getting married on any date is possible. However, when choosing a wedding date, do consider the holidays. Valentine’s Day and New Year’s Day are favorites of a would-be bride or groom. Although it is possible to get married on those days, you may have to fall in line for several hours before exchanging vows.

• Location. You have a great variety of options when choosing for a location. Las Vegas has chapels and churches. There are even hotel chapels. But if you are looking for a more romantic wedding location you can try one of the following:

o The Eiffel Tower at Paris Las Vegas. This will give you the once in a lifetime chance to say your “I do’s” in an exquisite Parisian setting.

o Red Rock. About 20 miles from Las Vegas lay a brilliant red splash of sandstone that is a product of more than 500 million years of nature’s wonders. Red Rock will be a great backdrop to make any wedding spectacular.

o Lake Mead. Only 45 minutes from Las Vegas, Lake Mead offers the largest man-made dam in the Western Hemisphere. There is nothing more romantic than exchanging vows on a boat as it glides through the water.

• Weather. Las Vegas has a lovely and sunny weather most of the year. However, the weather here can be extremely hot and it can melt anything from make-up to cake icings. If you are planning a wedding here, check if you can have the ceremony at night.

• Dress. Unless you already have a bridal gown or a tuxedo made for you before going to Las Vegas or have a budget, you may want to consider renting an attire for the wedding. The prices range from $2000-$3000 and may go higher depending on the style or brand of the dress. In choosing a gown, consider wearing sleeveless. Temperatures can go as high as 100 degrees.

• Hair and Make-up. If you’re an out-of-towner and you’re just in Vegas to get married, you will probably want to find a hairstylist prepare for the big day. Although hotels have salons within their property, you might also want to try local salons. Just be sure to book your appointment ahead of time and to keep holidays and weekends in mind to avoid getting late on your own wedding.

• Honeymoon. This all depends on your taste and your budget. You can choose among great hotels like the Bellagio, Paris, Tropicana, Excalibur. Each offers different packages that can cater to almost anything that can satisfy a newly wed.

• Marriage license. Although Vegas is known for quickie marriages, you still need a marriage license to get married. Be sure you have all the legal requirements before the ceremony to avoid delay.

• Witnesses. If you’re one of those couples whose idol is Britney Spears and who decided to go on an unplanned wedding, you might not have any guests in town to act as your witness at your ceremony. But don’t worry. Las Vegas chapels always have someone ready to stand as your witness for that very important milestone in your life.

• Wedding Themes. If you’re in Vegas to have your wedding ceremony, you don’t necessarily need to have a traditional ceremony. Sin City is the crazy wedding capital of the world, so why not make it a little wild and wacky. Some of the available wedding themes include Elvis weddings, Gondola weddings, Pirate ship weddings and even Star Trek weddings. It could be anything you can think of. It’s your wedding; you can do whatever you want.

Weddings Abroad

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Weddings Abroad

Traditionally, people get married in a church that is very near where the couple resides. There who have money can try something different such as having the ceremony done abroad.

There is some amount of risk should this be done in another country. This is because the couple will not be hands on throughout the entire wedding preparation. The travel company will be working on the details but so those who want someone else to handle it should make sure that these professionals are one of the best in the industry.

Most travel companies have a website where engaged couples can make inquiries. It will be a good idea to ask for the names of a few clients in the past to find out how well the firm performed during that event.

The rates for those who choose to have the wedding abroad will depend on the country where this will be held. Some are much cheaper than others so the couple should compare the prices first and see what is included in the package.

If the person is lucky, the travel company will frequently contact the client to make sure that this will work for the wedding. This means the customer will have a say in certain details such as the cake, décor and wardrobe. This will give the person a chance to make certain decisions regarding the wedding.

A representative will also make sure that the marriage certificate and others documents are in order before this takes place.

Most weddings abroad are done during weekdays. If the target date falls on a holiday, chances are this will have to be rescheduled. The venue may be on the beach or in an old church and couples are advised to inquire months in advance so that there is still a slot available.

The ceremony itself may be done in the conducted in the native dialect or in English so this is also something that the individual should check. It will really be awkward if the couple or the guests does not answer a single word being said by the one officiating the event.

There are those who have planned wedding in the Bahamas only to be disrupted by a coming hurricane. This can be avoided by also checking on the weather conditions to make sure Mother Nature will not ruin that special day. Contingency measures must also be set in place in case something uncontrollable happens.

Most wedding invitations include mentioning the attire to be worn during the affair. It will be crazy to wear a formal jacket and a long dress if this is done by the beach. This will look great if this was done in a castle or a church like what Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes did in Italy.

In a tropical setting, the bride should wear a short sleeved or sleeveless dress. The groom will wear a short-sleeved linen top.

Most engaged couples will be bringing along the outfits as part of the baggage. This could get ruined in the flight so airline companies advise passengers to have this placed in a hard case.

There are two reasons why couples may decide to have the wedding done abroad. The first is because it is much cheaper than doing it back home. The second is to only have close family and friends attend the event.

Surely some people who want to witness it can’t so the couple will have to decide whether or not to should the expenses. Of course, this is also a great way to test if those people really care about the couple.

Some couples who are having a wedding abroad can still subscribe to a bridal registry especially if the newly weds will be residing back home. Those who are planning to immigrate should probably mention in the invitation about this so cash can be given instead.

Friends and family members may even shoulder certain expenses such as the tours or the flight there as a present to the newly weds.

There are millions of people around the world who decide to get married either nearby or abroad. The decision where this will be held will really depend on the budget allotted since this could put the couple in debt for the next few years.

Hawaiian Wedding

2010-11-14T10:58:00.000-08:00

How to Tie the Knot the Hawaiian Way

If you want a Hawaiian wedding, you’re probably green with envy over those lucky pacific-islanders enjoying the splash of blue waves while sipping coconut juice at hand readily awaiting for that day. But don’t forlorn, your dream wedding can still come true. You can have your Hawaiian wedding without having to spend a fortune by literally exchanging your vows there.

Hawaiian weddings are laden with traditions showing respect for the family, ancestors and culture. Following these customs is believed to ensure luck, prosperity and happiness for the bridal couple. Here are the steps to make one memorable Hawaiian wedding to last you a lifetime.

STEP 1: Make room for some variation. Most Hawaiian weddings include a variety of Christian and Protestant traditions in the ceremony. Also plan to include in the ceremony a mix of Hawaiian and English customs. Allowing variation adds interest and color to the event.

STEP 2: Choose an appropriate attire for the bride. The bride should wear a long, usually white or depending on the motiff, and formal dress called a 'holoku.' In place of a veil, a garland of flowers known as 'haku lei’ hangs around her head. Her bouquet can either be of orchids or of wild lilies.

STEP 3: Select an appropriate attire for the groom. For the groom, choose a white shirt with long sleeves paired with white pants. Wrap his waist with a long sash which is typically red but may also follow the motiff of the wedding.

STEP 4: Purchase garlands Be sure that you both have maile leis or garlands that are made using sweet smelling green leaves hanging around your neck. This is a symbol for "aloha" and how the early settlrs of Hawaii communicated with their environment.

STEP 5: Adorn the garlands. For the lei of the bride, it should be woven with white jasmine or pikake. Meanwhile, the groom's lei should be adorned with ilima. An ilima is a flower that has very thin and brightly colored petals.

STEP 6: Order garlands for family members. Aside from ordering for yourselves, do also provide beautiful leis for the soon mothers-in-law. It is highly recommendable to order three-stranded pikake.

STEP 7: Have a conch ready and designate someone to blow the shell. It is a unique Hawaiian tradition to hear the sound of a conch for three times before the start of the ceremony. This signifies that the Lord is present in the ceremony.

STEP 8: Mix customs and traditions of different cultures in the wedding. Since Hawaii is a melting pot for various cultures. Try to incorporate Chinese, Japanese, and Filipino wedding traditions that reflect the rich diverse cultures found in Hawaii. For example, you may encourage some guests to wear the kimono of the Japanese or have japanese inspired wedding tables at the reception. You may also consider adding fireworks after the ceremony which is believed by the Chinese to drive out bad spirits and invite good luck and fortune.

STEP 9: Do the Pandango. Although not originally part of the Hawaiian heritage Pandango is a Filipino custom often present in at most Hawaiian weddings. The plan is to have money pinned on the clothes of the newly weds While the bride and groom are enjoying their first dance. Sponsors and other guests tape and wrap money around the bride and groom as long as the music is playing. The couple keeps dancing until all their guests had a made their wishes of good tidings for the couple.

STEP 10: Make origami. Borrowing another custom from another culture, prepare one thousand and one origami cranes made out of foil before the wedding. The long life span of a crane symbolizes happiness, good fortune, good luck, longevity, peace and faithfulness within the marriage.

STEP 11: Do not forget to order your wedding cake. Instead of using a regular flour, the main ingredient used should be wheat flour. The wheat represents the beginning of the couples' married life.

STEP 12: The couple should cut together the first slice of the cake. Cutting the cake together shows the commitment of each other to partake in whatever road and in whatever challenges their marriage takes them. Then the couple gives each other a bite of cake to show that they will continue love and honor each other.

Here are other tips to make your Hawaiian wedding memorable.

• Although it may seem funny and to some sweet, mashing the cake on your partner’s face is generally considered distasteful.
• To have a spectacular effect, hire a professional to frame and mount the cranes for guest to have something to admire.
• Consider serving, tropical fruits for desert and include seafood in the menu.
• Arrange for a band or a collection of instrumental Hawaiian music.

Celebrity Weddings

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Be a Celebrity on Your Wedding Day

Every lady dreams of the perfect wedding. It should not be any less than perfect to be able to truly make the heart feel happy.

There are many options that can be possibly done now. The choices of the bride are endless, from the motif, location, menu down to the flowers that will be used for decorations.

Sometimes, there is no need to look far to know what the heart truly desires. Sometimes, all it takes is to check out your favorite celebrity for wedding ideas.

Celebrity weddings are very hot nowadays. It is not just the paparazzi. It is not just the glitz. It is not just the glamour.

Nowadays, celebrities come up with the brightest ideas when it comes to the details of the wedding day. They even have the luxury that makes the heart of every woman feel green with envy.

So rather than just opening the television to watch or daydreaming in your den as you fantasize that perfect wedding, make that celebrity wedding your own.

You may not be an instant celebrity, but you can still enjoy the perks of the celebrity wedding. All you need is the willingness to put this dream into a reality.

How to Have Your Own Celebrity Wedding?

1. Browse through Magazines and Celebrity Shows

Magazines that deal with anything Hollywood can provide pictures and information of your favorite celebrities. You can study the things that you love about these celebrities and enjoy the same for yourself.

You can also get information on where they get the clothes and accessories they wear. Then, you can easily check out these sources on the internet and see if you can enjoy these services as well on your special day.

2. Pick Your Favorite Detail

You can also get tips from these celebrity weddings for the details that you will employ in your special day.

You can check out the design of the gown or the hairstyle. You can also get ideas on the venues where celebrities marry and even get ideas for your sweet words that you can share to the witnesses in your wedding.

It is possible for you to have two wedding dresses and be adventurous in the colors like what Britney Spears did in hers.

3. Check Out Your Budget

You may not have the enough budget and money to celebrate your wedding in some faraway palace like Tom and Katie did, but you can surely feel a queen still by just being creative and resourceful.

4. Hire a Wedding Planner and Consult Your Options

Preparing for a wedding can be a difficult task. It can even get complicated if you are eyeing a particular celebrity wedding to pattern from.

As such, hiring a wedding planner can help you organize your plans and put them into action. The planner can also give you connections that you can not normally have if you work on your own.

5. Hire a Celebrity Stylist

There are some stories about ordinary women who are able to hire the stylist of their favorite celebrities. You need not actually go to Oprah before you can do this.

Just seek the proper persons who can connect you to the stylist and schedule an appointment. Most of the time they will be able to accommodate you if there is no problem with the schedule.

If you can ask for some people to help you, it will even be better.

6. Pick a Celebrity Hairstyle

There are certain celebrities who are very well-known for their perfect hair styles. Stars like Jennifer Aniston are popular for their great hairstyles.

If you merely dreamed of such styles before, then it is time to take opportunity of your wedding day to sport that hairdo.

You deserve to look fabulous, that is why your stylist should be able to do exactly what your celebrity counterpart has in her head.

Let your hail fall very elegantly or style it with curly or waves to bring out the beauty that you do not normally display to other people.

7. Copy Your Favorite Celebrity Wedding Gown

You may not be able to get the services of Armani or Vera Wang to get your gown done. However, you can have your own gown designed just the way these famous designers did.

This way you can walk down the aisle with the same elegance as your favorite celebrity did.

Conclusion

There are many things to consider as you prepare for your own version of celebrity wedding. Just make sure that you get what you want. It is your special day. You deserve nothing less than perfect.

Norjuwana Bt Jamil

2010-10-15T10:44:00.000-07:00

NAME: Norjuwana Bt Jamil (wana)
AGE: 24
JOB:
CURRENT CITY: SKUDAI, JOHOR

Mazlin bte Md.Samin

2010-10-15T10:33:00.000-07:00

SRI Bridal Collection's Photos - PERTANDINGAN PENCARIAN WAJAH SRI BRIDAL COLLECTION

NAME: Mazlin bte Md.Samin
AGE: 26
JOB:
CURRENT CITY: RAWANG, SEL.

Nur Farina Abdullah

2010-10-15T10:27:00.000-07:00

NAME: Nur Farina Abdullah
AGE: 28
JOB:
CURRENT CITY: BANDAR TASIK SELATAN, KUALA LUMPUR

Jenny's & bicycle

2010-07-09T09:22:00.000-07:00

Jenny's Photo

2010-07-09T09:15:00.000-07:00

cathy sharon

2010-07-08T17:23:00.000-07:00

Cathy Sharon Sexy Pose at FHM Magazine.

Cathy Sharon is a Video Jockey of MTV Indonesia.

In fact Cathy is pretty girl, sexy, and a celebrity.

Sarah Azhari

2010-07-08T17:20:00.000-07:00

Wedding Hairdo

2010-07-03T08:34:00.000-07:00

Perfecting your Wedding Hairdo

Your wedding day is a grand day that you would want to be in your most beautiful appearance. This is the day that you would want yourself to bloom and be picture-ready. While the motif, wedding flowers and wedding gown are a great consideration for the wedding preparations, one of the concerns of most soon-to-be-wives is their hairdos.

Through-out the years wedding hairstyles have changed. Wedding make-over planners have invented and reinvented hairdos that would match the gowns and the beauty of the brides. Whatever is the length or type of hair of the bride, surely hairstylists would make a way how to make the most of the so called women’s “crowning glory”.

How to wear your hair on your wedding day is a thing that must be carefully considered. While you want to look elegant, being comfortable with your wedding hairdo is also important. Remember that it must compliment your face as well as your wedding gown.

Before the grand preparation you must have chosen the type of hairstyle you want. You may ask your regular hairdresser to try on you a few of the hairdos that you are choosing from. There is no harm is having your hair do a dry run or a practice as long as there are no chemicals involved that may harm your hair and ruin it in your wedding.

Having a short hair is not exactly a problem. Your hairdresser has the capability to do miracles with your hair making it look longer and making more flexible for any hairdo. Guests may not figure out the deception they get when looking at your beautiful hair.

You may try something different for your wedding but choose only hairstyles that would fit your face and also wouldn’t shock your guests. Avoid hairstyles that need so much time to prepare. Remember that your hair must stay in place for up to ten hours. The perfect hairstyle must endure the shoving of the veil and being swung around at the dance floor by guests and friends who would want to hug and kiss you.

Classic Updo
For formal weddings, ladies with medium length of hair can have this hairdo. This is always a popular choice of most brides. The pin-on ponytail or hair bun with a few strands of curls and twists of hair has a very sophisticated look.

Modern Updo
With a softer and more romantic look, the modern updo is best for all lengths and textures of hair with the help of tiaras, combs and hairpins.

Leaving it Long
Having the hair freely flow down is a popular hairdo for weddings whether it is a straight of a curly hair. For a more formal look, the “half updo” can be used. To give accent to the hair, a headband may be used or a few hairpins for a very simple but elegant look.

Short Styles
With the help of a few simple hair accessories, brides with short hairs can still look fresh, elegant and lovely. A soft bob can be done with short hairs accented by a tiara, headband, barrettes. For most curly and wavy hairs, brides may have the option of straightening their hair temporarily and doing the hairdo that they prefer.

The hairstyles for the year 2007 is forecasted to be more relaxed and free flowing. It shows the free spirit of the woman gliding through the aisles of the wedding halls. Instead of the conventional tiara and veil combination, flowers will be worn at the temple. Long haired ladies will let loose their hairs that would flow freely as they walk the aisle.
For short haired ladies, they can also have flowing locks through the help of lace front wigs that do have natural looks that guests would never figure out that they are fake. Lace front wigs are commonly used by celebrities. Lace front wigs are made of natural and synthetic hairs which are attached carefully to the hair.

There are a few helpful things that may also guide you in choosing your best wedding hairdo. You can look into the internet for some demonstrations or you may look into published wedding and lifestyle magazines featuring different wedding hairstyles. A few suggestions from friends and from your own partner may also help you choose your style.

Jewish Wedding

2010-07-03T08:29:00.000-07:00

This Time It’s Okay to Break the Glass: Steps on How to Make Your Jewish Wedding Special

An engagement ring sparkles on your finger. Family and friends are now impatiently raving and waiting for an invitation that will serve as their ticket for that hefty meal and cherished memorable experience. They simply know that this will probably be better than any Hanukkah.

While you need a wedding planner to keep everything organized and to keep you from stress before the “I do’s”, you need to browse on some of the important traditions of your faith to ensure a lifetime of great Jewish wedding memories. Outlined below are the steps and some must-know terms on how to make that dream wedding of yours come true.

• STEP 1: Choose Where you want to hold the wedding. Wherever that is, just make sure that the Rabbi and the guests can access it. Remember to make reservations ahead of time.

• STEP 2: Prepare a ketubbah.
A ketubbah is known as the marriage contract. This contains the detailed rights and resonsibilities of the married couple to each other. The chatan or groom’s principal obligations are to provide food, shelter and clothing for his wife, and to be attentive to her emotional needs. Until this contract has been prepared, the marriage may not be solemnized. So if you don’t want any delays, better prepare one ahead.

The kallah or wife has the ketubbah for keeping and she has access to it throughout their marriage. This binding legal document signed by two witnesses is often written amidst beautiful artwork and displayed at home.
The Ketubah is read between the first part of the ceremony or the Kiddushin (betrothal), and the latter part or Nissuin (marriage).

• STEP 3: Invite all the important people in your lives to attend your wedding and that includes your family and would-be family.

• STEP 4: Setup a huppah.
A huppah is a wedding canopy where the couples exchange their vows.
Under a beautiful quilt, the couple experiences betrothal and marriage. It is not only used asan important ceremonial symbol, it serves a decorative purpose as well.

• STEP 5: Allot extra yarmulke for guests who forgot to bring their own.
A kippah or yarmulke is a special head covering worn by Jewish men as a symbol of religious piety. Its English translation is skullcap, as it usually covers only the top of the skull.

• STEP 6: Give enough time before the veiling ritual or badeken where the groom puts the veil over the face of the bride once he has affirmed that she is the woman he intends to marry. The veil symbolizes that beyond the physical attraction the soul and character are paramount to marriage.

• STEP 7: Choose a plain gold ring without any engravings or ornamentation. This is done in the hopes that marriage will be as simple and as beautiful.

In placing the ring, the groom puts the ring in his hand before two witnesses, and then he declares to his bride his allegiance. The chatan then places the ring on the right hand forefinger of the bride, which is from to Jewish law an act that highlights the marriage and makes the marriage official.

• STEP 8: Request the guests to read out loud the seven blessings.
The Seven Blessings, said over the second cup of wedding wine, links the couple to their faith in God as the world's Creator, Provider of love and joy, and the greatest Savior.

After reciting the seven blessings, the kallah and chatan again drink some wine.

• STEP 9: Place a glass on the floor which the groom will break at the end of the ceremony as an indication that the Jewsih wedding ceremony is over. This is to remind the people about the destruction of the Jerusalem Temple. It is also a reminder that life and relationships are.fragile and needs utmost care.

• STEP 10: After the ceremony, the newly-wed couple are escorted to another room where they are left to be alone and to eat some food before joining their loveones and guests at the wedding feast. This moment signifies the union of the couple and their right to live together under one roof as husband and wife. This is called the yihud.

• STEP 11: It’s now time to party. So be sure you have a lot of room for dancing and partying in the reception. Usually, the guests provide entertainment by juggling and doing acrobat.

UK Wedding

2010-07-03T08:24:00.000-07:00

Five Popular Wedding Traditions in the United Kingdom

Incorporating the vibrant history of your heritage in your wedding through traditions is a fun way of making that special day truly memorable. Surprisingly, behind the façade of a highly modernized nation like the United Kingdom, there are numerous popular customs and superstitions that are still being followed up to this day. Although it may seem trivial to include all these traditions and beliefs considering the high demands of modern living, taking them into account when planning your UK wedding may just add more spice to the ceremony and to the couples married life.

Below is a compilation of some of the most popular traditions applied when doing a UK wedding.

• The Bridal Attire. For the bride’s attire, she follows an old tradition that came from a popular rhyme dating back during the Victorian times. According to this bridal attire rhyme, she has to wear something old to represent the link of the bride’s family to her life when she was still single. This is usually her mother’s jewelry.

The old line also said that she needs to wear something new which represents the good fortune of the bride’s marriage. A new wedding dress is usually purchased and chosen to be the new item in her attire.

Next she has to wear something borrowed or something that is owed by a happy bride during her wedding. This means bringing good luck to their marriage. This could be stockings, handkerchief, brooch or any jewelry.

Another part of her attire is wearing something blue which according to the bible symbolizes purity and faithfulness. Eventually, this custom has evolved into wearing a blue garter or a band at the bottom or trimming of the bride’s dress.

Lastly, the bride must place a silver sixpence in her shoe symbolizing wealth. Although financial wealth is usually invoked, intangible wealth like happiness and joy are also invited to reside in her married life.

• The Bride’s Veil. The origins of the wedding veil still remain a mystery since its first use centuries ago. One theory dates back when arranged marriages were still so popular. It is thought that a veil was placed over the bride’s face so that the groom would not run off if he didn’t like the face of his would-be wife. But wearing a wedding veil is also believed to protect the bride from evil spirits.

• Carrying the bride into the house. It is believed that there are spirits waiting at the threshold of the newlywed’s home. This is why the groom carries his bride into the doorstep of their home to guard the bride from those lingering evil spirits awaiting their arrival. Another reason why carrying the bride across the front doorsteps has been a popular custom is to avoid bad luck. During the Roman times, it was believed that if the bride tripped when entering their home, her marriage would be full of misfortunes. So to avoid any harm, this tradition has been carried for generations.

• The ring finger of the left hand. If you have noticed, the engagement ring is usually placed on the third finger, between the middle and smallest finger, of the left hand. One explanation for this belief relates to an Egyptian belief that the third finger follows the vein of love flowing directly to the heart.

• The meaning behind bridal flowers. The tradition of carrying bridal flowers goes back in the ancient times when heavily scented herbs were believed to drive away evil spirits, misfortune, and sickness. Meanwhile, during the Victorian period, flowers were used by lovers to communicate the messages of love with each other. Later on, the messages associated to these flowers were adapted and became popularly used by the bride to make a statement at her wedding. Here are some of the most popular flowers and their meanings:

o Carnation means love and fascination.
o Red Chrysanthemum means “I love you.”
o Daisy means innocent.
o Jasmine means amiability.
o Magnolia means perseverance.
o Red rose means love.
o Yellow rose means friendship.
o Pink rose means thankfulness and grace.
o Tulip also means love.
o Violet means faithfulness.

The list of traditions, beliefs or superstitions that people in the United Kingdom fascinatingly follow can go on and on. But these more popular ones will guide you in planning that wonderful and once in a lifetime UK wedding. Whether you believe the traditions or not, one thing is true - it is not the objects that symbolize what you wish for your marriage that command the fate of life-long relationship, but the love and commitment you invest in it.

The Bridal Registry

2010-07-03T08:13:00.000-07:00

When two people decide to get married, a lot of planning is involved to make that date a memorable one. The wardrobe of the spouses will be made, the venue of the wedding and the reception have to be agreed on including how much will be spent for everything.

Months before the wedding, it will be a good idea to sign up for a bridal registry. This will surely help the spouses get specific things for the new home instead of having to buy it from the store.

Who invented the idea of a bridal registry? This was first done many years ago in a Chicago based department store which first offered it to newly wed couples. A lot of retailers got hooked on the idea and almost everyone is doing it from the electronics store to the ones selling accessories for home improvement.

Most department stores offer this service. The engaged couple will just select the desired items from the selling area and the sales clerk will take note of everything. The representative can even help select some if the lovers are unsure of which item to get.

Some couples do not only register in one store. Some have done it in several ones especially when the brand that the lovers’ want is not available in one place and is only available in the other.

A great way which will serve as a guide for which items to get for the bridal registry will be to think of the items that will be needed in the new home. This should match the color of the walls so it is able to blend in with the surroundings.

Other items, which may be needed in the last minute, can also be done by the store. After all, those who are counting the days done will be stressed out worrying about the other details.

When this is finished, the engaged party should inform family and friends about it to avoid getting a similar item as a wedding gift. This is usually done by having this printed on the invitation.

If the couple is close to those attending the event, it wouldn’t hurt to do this by saying it up front. The same answer can be given to those who decide to ask.

Guests who are looking for a gift will be escorted around by the sales clerk explaining which items are the only ones left that have not been selected. If nothing is within the budget of those who want to buy a gift, the store can suggest giving a gift certificate instead as the present.

There are some who find the idea of a bridal registry offensive. This is because the couple is asking for something instead of just being thankful of whatever is given. On the other hand, it serves the purpose of only getting the essentials, which is why more people are doing the same thing.

There are incidents wherein the newly weds still get the same item perhaps because the guest did not have time to look at the bridal registry. Fortunately, most retailers will allow this to be exchanged for something else.

In fact, some couples have even went to the extent of registering for this online so that guests from out of town can check what gifts can be given for the wedding.

Aside from the usual home appliances that come from the bridal registry, others have decided to also add to the wish list certain things after the wedding. This can be the airfare for the dream honeymoon destination, a guided tour while staying there, a romantic dinner in a fancy restaurant and body care in a spa.

This is considered to be practical given that the couple has already spent so much for the wedding preparations.

Registries are also being done for newborn babies. Instead of those expensive items, toys and accessories are the usual things that parents ask for which will be very useful for the infant.

The wedding registry is simply a wish list. Not all of the items may be given during that special day but most of the items will surely be a big help for those who have decided to start a new life together as husband and wife.

Wedding Invitations

2010-06-27T11:14:00.000-07:00

Wedding Invitations 411

When planning weddings, each detail must be laid out. Wedding planners (like Jennifer Lopez’ title role in “The Wedding Planner” and Steve Martin’s character in “Father of the Bride”) is responsible for the wedding invitations.

Wedding invitations may look simple to the receivers’ eye, but to the people behind it, planning how it looks was a matter a debate among them. Here’s an insider look on how wedding invitations come to be:

The Color Is Symbolic
The bride thinks of the motif of her wedding months before the day arrives. Most of the time, the wedding invitation has these colors. Wedding invitations are the preview to the special day.

By combining two different colors that look good when set against one another, the wedding invitation is more appealing to the receivers’ eye. Invitations commune in a silent way – they are symbolisms and the colors have meaning.

There are color trends. Like back in the 60s and 70s, the popular color was the avocado green. Numerous nuptials held during that era had wedding invites of that color. Soon enough, the dresses of the bridesmaids were of that shade as well.

Understand color meanings as well as the appropriate matching and mixing of colors.

The Font Is Important
Let’s do this exercise. Go to your Microsoft Word program and click on the font option. You would have to continuously scroll down to browse through all the fonts that are available for you to use. From A to Z, these fonts serve as the choices for the wedding planner, bride and groom.

Of course, the fonts available for wedding invitations may not be the exact one that you see in your Microsoft word program. The makers of the wedding invitations present lettering examples to their client. Once selecting which font they would like to use for their wedding planner, they have the option to go with the basic black or choose another color.

Script fonts for wedding invitations must be formal and elegant. The script serves as the tone for serious wedding invitations. Too formal may equate too dull.

If the font has lots of lines and swirls, it conveys a feminine touch. The wedding invitation must be personal. Often, wedding invitations are engraved on scented stationery – white with touches of pink.

Here are suggested formal scripts: CommScript, Exmouth, Freeborder Script and Scriptina.

If you prefer informal and casual scripts, have a look at Dymaxion Script, Noodle Script, Stereo HiFi and Still Time.

Now we move to what must be written on the wedding invitation. Here is how you compose the traditional wedding invitation.

The first name your guests see on the wedding invitation are the names of the people who will be paying for the event. Most cases, this is the bride’s parents. If both the bride and the groom will be paying, then it is their names that appear first on the invitation.

The words “cordially invite” you is the most formal phrasing on the wedding invitation. If the wedding will be held at a place of worship, then the wedding invitation should read “request the honor of your presence.” For informal invitations, the wording can be “request the pleasure of your company.”

Now if the engaged couple are the ones paying for the wedding, “invite you to join us at the celebration of our marriage” is written.

The bride must always be mentioned first, followed by the groom.

The date and time are traditionally spelled out:

Saturday, the twenty-fourth of September
Two thousand and seven
At two o’clock in the afternoon.

But it can also be written as:
Saturday, September 24, 2007
at 2 pm.

If the ceremony is a location known by most, you don’t have to include the address. But if it is an intimate one or your home, the address must be written out.

The wedding invitation will also include the time and venue for the reception. The reception follows the wedding ceremony. Traditionally, the guests will move from the location of the wedding to the place of the ceremony.

Most importantly, you have to ask your guests to RSVP. RSVP is the abbreviated form of the French sentence “Respondez Sil Vous Plait” which translates to “Please reply.” This will give you an idea on how many people are coming. Upon having that knowledge, the seat plan will be easier to organize.

Do not forget to include the attire. This will help the guests decide on what they will wear. If you do not want people to come in wearing jeans, then include the line “black tie.”

Now, you’re ready. That’s just step one. But at least you’re on your way to plan your dream wedding.

Bridal Registry

2010-06-27T11:08:00.000-07:00

The Bridal Registry

When two people decide to get married, a lot of planning is involved to make that date a memorable one. The wardrobe of the spouses will be made, the venue of the wedding and the reception have to be agreed on including how much will be spent for everything.

Months before the wedding, it will be a good idea to sign up for a bridal registry. This will surely help the spouses get specific things for the new home instead of having to buy it from the store.

Who invented the idea of a bridal registry? This was first done many years ago in a Chicago based department store which first offered it to newly wed couples. A lot of retailers got hooked on the idea and almost everyone is doing it from the electronics store to the ones selling accessories for home improvement.

Most department stores offer this service. The engaged couple will just select the desired items from the selling area and the sales clerk will take note of everything. The representative can even help select some if the lovers are unsure of which item to get.

Some couples do not only register in one store. Some have done it in several ones especially when the brand that the lovers’ want is not available in one place and is only available in the other.

A great way which will serve as a guide for which items to get for the bridal registry will be to think of the items that will be needed in the new home. This should match the color of the walls so it is able to blend in with the surroundings.

Other items, which may be needed in the last minute, can also be done by the store. After all, those who are counting the days done will be stressed out worrying about the other details.

When this is finished, the engaged party should inform family and friends about it to avoid getting a similar item as a wedding gift. This is usually done by having this printed on the invitation.

If the couple is close to those attending the event, it wouldn’t hurt to do this by saying it up front. The same answer can be given to those who decide to ask.

Guests who are looking for a gift will be escorted around by the sales clerk explaining which items are the only ones left that have not been selected. If nothing is within the budget of those who want to buy a gift, the store can suggest giving a gift certificate instead as the present.

There are some who find the idea of a bridal registry offensive. This is because the couple is asking for something instead of just being thankful of whatever is given. On the other hand, it serves the purpose of only getting the essentials, which is why more people are doing the same thing.

There are incidents wherein the newly weds still get the same item perhaps because the guest did not have time to look at the bridal registry. Fortunately, most retailers will allow this to be exchanged for something else.

In fact, some couples have even went to the extent of registering for this online so that guests from out of town can check what gifts can be given for the wedding.

Aside from the usual home appliances that come from the bridal registry, others have decided to also add to the wish list certain things after the wedding. This can be the airfare for the dream honeymoon destination, a guided tour while staying there, a romantic dinner in a fancy restaurant and body care in a spa.

This is considered to be practical given that the couple has already spent so much for the wedding preparations.

Registries are also being done for newborn babies. Instead of those expensive items, toys and accessories are the usual things that parents ask for which will be very useful for the infant.

The wedding registry is simply a wish list. Not all of the items may be given during that special day but most of the items will surely be a big help for those who have decided to start a new life together as husband and wife.

Wedding Makeup

2010-06-24T00:11:00.000-07:00

Make Yourself Up On Your Wedding Day

Her wedding day is the bride’s special day. All eyes must be on her. If you saw “Monster-In-Law” there was this scene with Jennifer Lopez and Jane Fonda arguing about their gowns. Jane Fonda donned this flattering white dress, clearly to upstage the bride-to-be Lopez. Lopez was furious.

Beyond the dress, brides also ponder about their hairstyle and their make-up. You may be wearing the best designer gown that you can afford, but if you look like you put a stray cat on your head or had just rolled out of your bed, this will be the talk of your wedding, and not your dress.

For brides who have a background on how they look best, they can actually do the task themselves. If you are one of them, all you need are the right make-up products. Your wedding is worth buying new make-up for. Go for the brand your budget can afford.

Here are a couple of wedding make-up styles you can opt for:

1. Contemporary Wedding Make-Up
The soft sparkles of mixed colors such as plum and pink will give you a natural and chic glow.

2. Hollywood Starlet Wedding Make-Up
This make-up entails smoky eyes, full lips and bare blush. The emphasis of this style of wedding make-up is on the eyes and the lips.

3. Classically Feminine Wedding Make-Up
By blending neutral tones set against your skin tone, this traditional make-up look will play up your feminine features.

4. Spanish Flair Wedding Make-Up
Similar to the Hollywood Starlet Wedding Make-Up because of the smoky look and full red lips, you’re sure to have eyes on you. It will also give the impression that you will be dancing tango or flamenco after the ceremony.

5. Vintage Romance Wedding Make-Up
The usual colors are cream and peaches. This is perfect for fair-skinned brides because it accentuates their skin tone, giving them a warm effect.

6. Glamour Goddess Wedding Make-Up
With full eyes and full pouting lips like that of Angelina Jolie’s, go all out on your glamorous day. You’re not only a bride, you’re a goddess.

7. Retro Regal Wedding Make-Up
Mostly inspired by Audrey Hepburn, this make-up gives off the regal effect. You’re a bride-and-princess on your special day.

8. Garden Party Wedding Make-Up
Inspired by British garden weddings, your make-up with shades of plum and rose will turn you into a flower in no time.

There are others who prefer hiring professional wedding make-up artists. Some may be expensive than most but you can see the difference.

With their extensive experience and high-quality staff, professional make-up artists can not only fix your make-up, they will also be responsible for your hair. Plus, they bring with them hair accessories once the situation requires it. By creating the style that you dream of since you were a little girl, professional make-up artists will be your fairy godmother.

After hiring a professional make-up artist, you must schedule an appointment with them. This is to give the make-up artist appropriate time to ponder on the most suitable look for you. She will suggest the style that works best with your skin tone. She will also think of the right hairstyle.

Another good thing about having a professional make-up artist on your side is not only will she take care of your make-up, she also knows the right brush, comb and headpiece. You will totally be in good hands.

Every bride would love to look her best. She will also feel her best, thanks to the professional make-up artist and her staff. You, as the bride, can just relax by taking a seat and having fun as they do all the work for you.

If you have suggestions or you perused through a particular look that you fancy as you flip through bridal magazines, do not hesitate to come forward and show this to your professional make-up artist. Of course, you have a say on how you will look like. The make-up artist is there to also provide as second opinion, thanks to her expertise.

Now that you have another wedding aspect planned, you can take a deep breathe and remove the crossing of your fingers. You know for sure that everyone’s attention will be on you the very minute you make your way to the altar.

Wedding On A Budget

2010-06-24T00:07:00.000-07:00

Budget Wedding Too Cheap for You? Look Again

Getting hitched on a budget is not cheap. It's actually a practical way of getting there and you shouldn’t be
embarrassed about being cost-conscious. Even Carmen Elektra, with all the pomp in her own affair, voiced her

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concerns about too much cost during her pre-wedding prep.

While relatively speaking, most regular couple's budget concerns may seem a pittance compared to Elektra's (her wedding gown alone reputedly cost $10,000), it is still well worth your effort to put some thought into your own wedding preparations. Here's how:

Everything's in the plan.
You can't hope to build a budget if you haven’t got a plan. Start your wedding plans as early as possible. Use a separate notebook to record everything from your schedules, motif, florists, churches, wedding receptions, list of invitees, your mom's clothes, everything. If you can foresee your needs versus your wants, you can trim down your budget significantly.

Limit your invitees
Do you really have to invite Aunt Sally's best friend's cousin who helped you with your third grade art class assignment or every member of your dad's golf club who knows your name? Keep your budget down by focusing on a more intimate, exclusive affair. For everyone else, just host a simple pre- or post-wedding get-together. This way, you get to share with them your happiness without incurring too much cost.

Rent, make or borrow
That includes shoes, jewelry, even utensils and toasting glasses. Ask your relatives, friends and close colleagues for help. Have your flowers, wedding invites and favors made by volunteers and save on cost.

Professional florists cost more, so why not tap your small flower arrangement class around the corner and have them make your bouquets for you?

Budget date
Consider getting married on a Friday than on a weekend. Restaurants and bars charge cheaper on weekdays than on Saturdays or Sundays.

Wedding gowns and dresses
Wedding gowns can cost a lot, regardless, but you can shave off dollars by a little creativity. Shop for dresses from consignment shops, popular catalogs, newspaper and internet ads. Or, begin a family tradition by using your mother's gown (if it fits) or maybe even your grandmother's beautiful lace dress. Vintage can look very becoming for a wedding. If you want an updated look, go to a trusted seamstress and have it trimmed or embellished.

If you want celebrity wedding gowns on the cheap, check out sites like WeddingChannel.com. You'll find imitation dresses that look exactly the same as the ones worn by your favorite celebrity but at a much affordable price. A $10,000 celebrity wedding dress can be had for $500 to $800.

Reception
The most expensive part of your wedding is the reception, so this is the part where you'll need the most help. If you want to have the best budget choice, start your search ahead of time. Look beyond the price when shopping for the right location. Some reception halls may cost more but might have better facilities and extras, so be sure to compare well.

If you're hosting a wedding reception in your home or in a location that doesn’t serve food, you will have to hire a caterer. You can maintain your budget by asking a relative or friend who is qualified to prepare the food. You save more by just spending for the raw materials. Ask for his/her service as a wedding gift instead.

Choose buffet or plate meals or to bring your budget down even further, get married earlier for a breakfast reception. A mid-morning or afternoon reception will mean less food expense, allowing you to serve just hors d' oeuvres, cake or non-alcoholic drinks. You can just add wine or beer later on. To save even more, buy liquor by the bulk or stock up on sale items weeks before the wedding.

Instead of hiring a DJ, record your music in one CD and assign someone to play it at a given time. And when it comes to transportation, rent cars only for the bride, groom and the main entourage like the best man or maid of honor. The rest of the bridal party will usually bring their own cars or ride with their parents, spouses or significant other.

Planning a wedding on a budget need not be a scary, cheapo affair. On the contrary, it can be as classy and as memorable as any expensive wedding. By putting in much creativity and thought into the process, you not only save money, you can even be confident and satisfied enough to know that you are starting a new life on the right foot, debt-free.

Beach Wedding

2010-06-23T23:50:00.000-07:00

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Celebrating a Beach Wedding

Marrying couples know how different it feels to anticipate the day of their wedding. There are all sorts of emotion like excitement, happiness and eagerness that can fill the heart all at the same time.

Nothing compares to the anticipation that one will finally settle with the person he or she loves. It is like a dream come true to finally find the perfect husband or wife.

Of course, there is also the anticipation in being able to celebrate the wedding of your dreams. Every couple wants to celebrate the first day of their togetherness in the best way possible.

This is why the couple must go all the way in bringing about the most perfect celebration on the day of their wedding by picking the perfect theme.

The Beach Wedding Theme

Having a beach wedding is one of the coolest ways to celebrate the special day of the couple when they are finally united as one to spend the rest of their lives together. The beach wedding provides the marrying couple with utmost freedom in their creativity.

For one, the beach can set the perfect setting in this solemn ceremony. The beauty of nature itself is perfect already to give a wonderful background.

The beach can also give you and your guests the feeling of romance and serenity, thereby making your wedding celebration a solemn and loving touch.

Beach Wedding Ideas

Here are some ideas that you can consider to come up with a perfect beach wedding ceremony.

1. Pick the most perfect time of the day that will make you happy. It is best to choose between sunrise and sunset. The sunset can give the most romantic mood while sunrise can provide the most anticipating atmosphere.

Each of these choices will also give the most spectacular backdrop for your wedding pictures and videos. Just imagine a romantic ceremony with the attractive colors of the sun in the background.

2. If you feel like having a fun wedding, the beach will also be a good place to execute the plan. You can come up with a nice beach party that will be able to allow your guests to participate in activities.

Most brides dream of being brought to her groom in a horse-drawn carriage. Some even envision themselves in horseback with their loved one. A beach wedding will allow you to execute these plans.

You can also have programs during your wedding day where people can just feel laid back and unpretentious in the environment that you cannot achieve in hotel wedding receptions.

3. Your beach wedding can be added with other themes that will definitely delight the heart of the marrying couple.

Most of the adventurous ones have ventured on coming up with a pirate wedding. You can have costumes and decorations rented to give the perfect finish to your plan.

The guests can also be given a chance to enjoy some activities like a treasure hunt. After the celebration, sailing off to the waters will definitely give the romantic finale.

4. The beach wedding can also be done during the nighttime and let the couple enjoy a beach party with their closest pals and relatives. This is especially delightful for young couples.

You can celebrate the wedding as you move under the stars and hear the waves of the beach in your ears.

5. You can also have the most intimate and solemn ceremony in the beach. The bride and groom can walk barefoot in the sand and enjoy the simplicity of nature and the company of the closest friends.

6. You can also enjoy so much freedom when it comes to decorations. You can simply let the beach and nature become your own decoration.

At the same time, you also have the option to have fun. You can put up candles, torches, sandcastles and other details that will delight the heart.

7. This beach wedding theme will also give you a wide range of choices for your wedding favors. You can do it Hawaiian style by giving out luaus or some beautiful shells to your guests.

Conclusion

Celebrating with a beach wedding theme will definitely give you the freedom to enjoy your wedding day with the wonders that the beach and nature can provide.

Wedding Flowers

2010-06-23T18:32:00.000-07:00

The Essentials of Wedding Flowers

Your wedding may be the most important day in your life. This sacred tying of the knot becomes a higher level of your commitment to your significant partner.

On your wedding, flowers are very essential in creating the ambiance that you want for your special day. Wedding flowers are not merely decorations on your wedding. Wedding flowers are much more than that. Wedding flowers are the expressions of your inner self and the love that the groom and the bride have for each other as witnessed by their friends and family. The choice of flowers which to be used for the wedding depends on the message that the soon to be wife and husband would want to say.

So what are the must-haves on your wedding that involve your wedding flowers? All wedding florists ensure these things. You cannot do away with your church wedding without these.

You would need flowers to be placed at the entrance, aisle and the altar. You would also need flowers at the reception which includes the entrance, and table centerpieces. Both the cake table and the guest book table also need beautifully decorated flowers. There must also be flowers at the top of the wedding cake.

At home where the wedding photographer starts taking pictures, there have to be flowers properly arranged with the gown, shoes and all the other wedding symbols.

Aside from the bridal bouquet, the maid of honor and all the bridesmaids should have their own individual bouquets, too. The wedding attendants may also have flowers. The headpieces of the maid of honor and the bridesmaids also are made of flowers. The flower girls’ flower basket and headpiece must not be forgotten. The bride also has a different bouquet to be thrown away. This throwaway bouquet is usually given as complimentary by most florists.

Corsages must also be prepared for the mothers, grandmothers and usherettes while buttonholes/boutonnieres are for the groom’s attendants, best man, grandfathers, fathers, drivers and ushers.

There are a few guide questions in choosing your wedding flowers. “What is the season of our wedding? Would we be using fresh or artificial flowers? Would we take the seasonal flowers or the commonly abundant flowers all year-round? What is the color of our wedding? What message would we like to tell our guests?”

Wedding flowers may be categorized into spring, summer, autumn, winter and anytime classifications. In choosing the kind of wedding flowers, you may consider the season of your wedding. Wedding flowers in season are commonly cheaper and easier to find. But you may also consider the kind of flowers that can be found all through-out the year.

A few spring wedding flowers are the following: tulips, peonies, pansies, fern, greenery, ivy, daffodils, lilies, lilacs, lily of the valley, iris, dogwoods, hyacinth, sweet peas, apple and cherry blossoms, larkspur, forsythia branches and violets.

Summer wedding flowers in the other hand include daisies, asters, iris, roses, dahlias, zinnias, larkspur, stock, calla lilies, Shasta, delphinium, geraniums, hydrangeas, sunflowers, sweet William, greenery, beech leaves, fern, Jacob ladder, goldenrod and meadowsweet.

At fall, wedding flower arrangements include the flowers from the two earlier said seasons which the bride has the preference in having a single type of flower or having a combination of the flowers.

Aster, roses, zinnias, statice, dried hydrangeas, marigolds, chrysanthemums and daisies are a few of the wedding flowers in autumn. Autumn leaves, yarrow, rosehip and rosemary are the commonly used foliage for an autumn wedding.

Winter wedding would include flowers such as orchids, poinsettias, camellias, jasmine, amaryllis, accents of pine, ivy and spruce.

Flowers that can be found easily all through-out the year are carnations, roses, gardenias, baby’s breath, ivy, snapdragons and stephanotis.

The choice between fresh and artificial flowers is easier to make. Most weddings use fresh flowers. It is not only fresh to the viewing eyes, but it also conveys the message of sincerity.

What do different flowers symbolize? Here is a rundown of the flowers and there meanings that the groom and the bride may want to consider in making their choice for their wedding flowers.

Red rose- love
White rose- unity
Yellow rose- joy
Orange rose- passion
Pink rose- secret love, grace and sweetness
Baby’s breath- devotion
Calla lily- beauty
Daisy- romance and innocence
Ivy- fidelity
Carnation- devoted love
Lily of the valley- happiness
Orchid- love and beauty
Stephanotis- marital happiness
Tulips- love and passion
Zinnia- affection

Another essential consideration in picking flowers is budget. Financing wedding flowers may be very costly if not carefully studied. Get flowers that are exact for all the needs of the wedding. Get a package from a wedding florist that has a reasonable price.

Wedding Ring

2010-06-23T18:29:00.000-07:00

The Wedding Ring

When two people get married, a wedding is given as a symbol of commitment, eternity, fidelity, honor and love. The couple may have been dating for less than a year or longer before deciding to tie the knot.

The groom will give two rings to the bride to be. The first is known as the engagement ring. It is here that the man will ask the woman if this person would like the idea of spending the remaining years as husband and wife.

Should the girl accept the offer, the couple will now announce this to friends and family so that the wedding preparations will be underway.

The second is the wedding ring. Usually, the couple will go to a store and buy one from the display case or have a pair custom made.

Most wedding rings are made of gold. This comes in yellow, white and pink. The pair who will be tying the knot can choose a plain design or have a pair that has a line with a combination of two colors.

At times, some diamonds are placed at various points of the ring. There is also an engraving in the center with the names of the couple and the date or some intimate words symbolizing the love for one another.

Gold regardless of color is either 14 or 18 karat. This will last for many years as long as it is cleaned.

There are some customers who choose to get a wedding ring made out of titanium. This is not advisable because it won’t be that shiny anymore after less than a year of being worn.

This is the reason that some recommend tungsten instead. Those who choose to have a ring made of this metal should be sure that it contains carbide. This chemical helps keep it both shiny and scratch resistant, which is truly good, value for money.

Unfortunately, not everyone can use tungsten as a ring. The metal contains cobalt so those who have an allergic reaction once it comes into contact with the fingers should choose something else for the wedding ring.

Another popular metal among newly weds is platinum. This is color white and is heavier than gold. One advantage is that it does not have to be rhodium plated to keep it shining unlike gold.

Getting a piece of cloth will make it look good as new as though it came from the production line.

People should know that among all the metals used for wedding rings, platinum is the most expensive. The designs are also very limited so couples will have to choose between plain or studded with stones.

Those who are having a hard time in choosing which wedding ring to get can look at what is available in the jewelry store. The person can also check online if the samples being offered are not that good or look in magazines since manufacturers usually advertise it here.

To make sure that the wedding ring fits perfectly into the hands of the future husband and wife, the couple’s third or fourth finger on the left hand must be measured by the sales clerk.

There are a lot of wedding stores that sell these rings. Those who don’t know where to start can ask a friend or family member where the pair was bought since this is also part of the budget of the couple.

The wedding rings should be identical. The one for the man will probably be bigger while the woman will probably get something smaller.

It should not be too tight since this will make it difficult to take out and not too loose since this could fall. After the wedding ring is paid for and given to the couple, this should be entrusted to the best man who will be holding this until the part of the ceremony where both will profess the vows formally making the two husband and wife.

The search for the perfect wedding ring may take weeks or even months. Time must be set aside so that the couple will be able to find something that both will love and cherish which are exactly the same vows both will express to each other on that special date.

Wedding Reception Selection

2010-06-23T18:24:00.001-07:00

Location, Location, Location: Tips for Selecting the Perfect Reception for Your Wedding

Your wedding theme
Your wedding reception selection will depend a lot on the theme you want for your wedding. A beach, a hilltop, a garden, even a historic area can enhance your reception and make your wedding a very memorable event. Consider the kind of décor you will need and which would work well for the reception. A place that's too windy, for example, will ruin delicate tulle and chiffon arrangements.

Location
Consider how far the reception is from the church or if it is accessible to the bridal party and the guests. It could have the most breathtaking views but if it would take more than an hour to get there on a winding dirt-road past deserted areas, you might want to reconsider. Ask about traffic jams or rush hours that could affect your arrival and departure times.

Facilities for an indoor reception
Check the reception yourself. Take the most common route you and your guests will be taking to see the condition of the road. When you arrive, check the parking area if there's enough space for guests' parking, or if there' space for handicap access if it's needed. Look at the façade, the color of the building and the design of the structure if these figure well into your specs.

Survey the area where your wedding reception will be held and see if it can accommodate the number of guests you will be having. Check for airconditioning, clean bathrooms and a changing room for the bride if possible.

If you want your wedding ceremony done in the same place, ask where and how. Inquire also about seating arrangements, the location of the food table, wedding gifts and the DJ's booth. Ask to see pictures of sample settings that are similar to what you have in mind.

If you're having an outdoor reception, survey the grounds and surrounding plants and flowers. Ask if the garden will look the same on the month of your wedding or if the blooms won't be around by then.

Ask the reception manager if they expect to have construction work done around the time of your wedding reception. You don’t want the sound of hammers and drills heard during toasts nor workmen going in and out of the area while you're having your first dance.

Date
If the venue is available on your selected date, ask if there's anyone else who's booked the place on the same day. Imagine how disappointed you would feel if there's a convention of noisy salesmen next door.

Food
Most venues have partnerships with caterers. Look at the menus for the best choice with your budget. Or if you want to bring some food and wine or have your own caterer, ask for corkage fees. You might also want to inquire about cake cutting fees, since some venues charge this separately.

Before you decide on which menu you like, schedule a food tasting first. Make sure to have your guests in mind when choosing the menu, since you might have ones who are non-meat eaters. Make necessary adjustments on the menu if it's called for.

Cost
Ask how much it would cost to rent the place or to set up a ceremony. Since most venues charge a set number of hours (usually 4-5), ask how much succeeding hours would cost in case your reception gets extended. If they have wedding packages, make sure to check these as well. Most of these include the wedding cake, flowers and the limo.

Make sure you know what is included in the price and don’t just assume. Most reception rentals include lighting, sound system, tables and chairs. Others include video systems, music, utensils, glasses, floral arrangements, even venue decors.

Next, inquire about payment schedule: when the deposit should be paid and when the full payment is due. Make sure you put everything in writing and once the contract has been drawn, read it carefully in case some things have been missed. Don’t be afraid to complain or change a few things. After all, it's your wedding reception and the right selection will figure a great deal on whether it will turn out to be a wonderfully memorable event or something you'll be mad about for years to come.

Wedding Entourage

2010-06-23T18:19:00.000-07:00

Planning Your Wedding Entourage

Planning your wedding can be the most exciting thing to ever do. It is a grand celebration on your commitment to love and marriage. It is like another chapter being opened in your life.

Planning weddings can also be very tiring. There are a lot of things to list down and prepare. Arrangements have to be made for the flowers, gowns, church and reception areas. But the first and most important thing to consider when planning your wedding is the wedding entourage. Who are the people completing your wedding entourage?

The wedding entourage is not simply the list of your families, friends and guests you wish to be with you during your wedding. They are not only the witnesses to the vows of your matrimony but they are the lights and pillars for a strong marriage. The wedding entourage is a crucial support system also during your wedding. Their role as parents and sponsors do not stop when the wedding is over. They will be there to support and guide the newly weds and help them strengthen the bonds of their marriage.

What are the ways to choose your wedding entourage? Friends and family members are the ones that usually compose the wedding entourage. You may try to list down who are the people special you wish to be present on your wedding and would assume an important role in helping you with the problem-solving on your wedding.

Once you have finished the list, set up a meeting with them or a party date. This will let them get to know each other and become familiar so that they can work together more effectively. Also it strengthens the binds of both families and puts an important post for your close friends.

It is important to clarify the different roles and responsibilities for each key player in your wedding. You must delegate the jobs like setting up the flowers if you choose to make your own flower arrangements or ensuring the wedding gowns or taking care of the decors for the wedding reception.

Set up a clear chain of command. Important aspects of the wedding must have a team leader. You may ensure leaders for flowers, food, decors, transportation to name a few. Get the contact information of all the members and make a simple directory for the wedding. Give them also a clear schedule and deadlines of things to ensure for the preparations.

Do not forget to show your appreciation to these people who have worked hard for your successful wedding. You may prepare for them simple gifts or cards thanking them. Your wedding became a lot easier with their assistance and dedication.

The list for the wedding entourage for the wedding ceremony is as follows:

Celebrant. This is the attending priest for the wedding. Choose a priest who is personally acquainted to you. This way, he can be personal with his advices.

Parents of the bride and groom. They have the biggest role in the wedding besides next to the bride and groom.

Principal sponsors. They are the men and women who shall be your advisers and godmothers for the wedding and your marriage. They would try to support you with establishing a strong family. With their presents, you can have an easy start for establishing your family. You must, of course, save the money given to you by the sponsors.

Secondary sponsors. Included in the secondary sponsors are the ones who would read the missalettes and guide the attending people; the ones who will light the candles; the nes who would clothe the veil; the ones who would hang the rope of binding. They are your close friends who shall help you entertain your guests and help you with the reception’s program.

Bestman and maid of honor. Depending on your personal choice, you may have more than one bestman and maid of honor. They shall assist the groom and the bride during the wedding. After the ceremonies, they shall help the newly weds with having the marriage contract signed by the principal sponsors.

Groomsmen and the bridesmaids. They are additional helpers of the groom and bride
Cupids and Angels. They may carry the offerings for the wedding to pay thanksgiving to the Lord.

Flower girls. They shall prepare the pathway of the bride whose day is very much showered with beauty.

Coin bearer, bible bearer and ring bearer. As their names imply, they shall carry the important symbols of the wedding.

Asian Wedding

2010-06-23T17:40:00.000-07:00

The Perfect Asian Wedding

Couples who want to get married want to have the perfect wedding celebration that they will treasure forever. It has to be perfect as a celebration of love and the life that they will share together.

As such, marrying couples have the freedom to choose the theme and details of their wedding. They can choose any program that will satisfy the desires of their hearts.

One of the best choices for wedding themes is the Asian wedding style.

The Asian Wedding Theme

The brides and grooms who love anything Asian can enjoy their own Asian wedding. It can let one have the feel of the ethnic traditions and oriental culture.

An Asian wedding is perfect for anyone who wants to have a taste of the culture of Asians. It can also allow one to enjoy the simplicity of a Zen-like environment while maintaining the elegance in the ceremony.

Asian-themed weddings will put emphasis more on the simple and solemn celebration of the ceremony. It also has due regard to environment and nature. It can make the wedding as pure as the love that the marrying couple shares.

How to Enjoy Your Own Asian-themed Wedding?

Once you have finally decided that you will have your own Asian wedding to celebrate about, it is only proper that you take the necessary preparations to stage this wonderful event.

Here are some of the points to consider for that special wedding day.

1. Japanese or Chinese

There are many Asian countries in the East whose wedding traditions you can copy on your own. However, the Japanese and Chinese cultures are the more popular ones.

You can easily look for decorations, materials and details that will go about with the traditions of these two countries, considering that the Western world has embraced the elements of these oriental cultures.

2. Have Fun with the Colors

Once you have opted to take on an Oriental wedding, then you can freely consider wonderful colors in your wedding day.

Generally speaking, white is not the best choice for a gown in an Asian wedding. In the oriental culture, white is the color of death. It is not wise to stick with white if you are going all out oriental.

Red is the lucky color, together with black. These two colors are believed to bring the marrying couple luck and prosperity in the days to come. So it will be great to consider these color schemes and experiment on the new choices that you have.

You can actually consider surveying your local community for designers that have knowledge of the Asian styles. The online community also gives a lot of choices for providing ideas when it comes to genuine Oriental apparel.

3. Simplicity and Elegance

An Asian bride will naturally display her beauty by exuding elegance in her simplicity.

This means that you have to seek for a gown with simple lines and not too many embellishments. Use fabrics that are truly reflective of Oriental style. Choose for footwear strappy sandals that will complement the elegant gown.

The best detail that an Asian bride focuses on is her hairstyle. It must not be wavy or curly or let loose. The hair must be styled with a dramatic flair to complement the simple gown.

4. Wedding Details

There is a wide range of choices when it comes to details.

You can have paper lanterns, origami or pottery decorations. You can also put up a small pond with the koi fish swimming in it.

Orchids and lilies are wonderful options for the flowers. You can also put small fishbowls in the center of the table with white and black stones in it.

Just consult your wedding planner for a more coordinated scheme of your choices.

5. Wedding Favors

You can have fun too with the wedding favors that you will give to your guests.

One of the popular choices couples do is to give out fortune cookies. Guests have fun in reading some predictions.

It is also a tradition to give out seed packets that can be grown by the guests in their households. This is a symbolism of the love of the couple that will continue to grow.

For a more practical choice, you can have some of your wedding favors become the decoration itself in the wedding tables.

Bamboo stalks are used to signify good luck. The guests can simply pick it up after the celebration as a wonderful memento.

Conclusion

Consider the tips and notes provided above and you will definitely enjoy a delightful Oriental celebration on your wedding day.

Philippines: Sinulog Festival

2010-06-23T17:25:00.000-07:00

On the feast day of the Santo Nino (Holy Child) or Child Jesus, a Pontificial Mass is celebrated by the Cardinal with the Bishops of Cebu, attracting hundreds to the Basilica Minore del Santo Nino in Cebu City before the start of the Sinulog parade. Historical chronicles record that the natives of Cebu had long performed tribute dances for their anitos - the wooden idols of their indigenous worship.

Myanmar: Washing Buddha’s Face

2010-06-23T17:23:00.000-07:00

The daily ritual washing of the Buddha's visage or face takes place at 4:30 in the morning, at the most revered pagoda in Mandalay just three kilometers south of the city centre. The Mahamuni Pagoda is held out as a sacred pilgrimage site, second only to the holy Golden Rock of Myanmar near Yangon.

Malaysia: Lepa Lepa in Semporna

2010-06-23T17:22:00.000-07:00

The lepa (which means ‘boat' in the dialect of the Bajau community of Semporna) is a single-mast vessel, commonly made from red seraya wood or ubar suluk. The lepa is believed to have its origins in the coastal communities of Semporna. The competition for most beautiful or outstanding lepa is a criteria that includes assessing the lepa's decoration (with sails, banners and flags), its structure and the performances staged.

Lao PDR: Boun Pi Mai: Legend of the Washing of the Head

2010-06-23T17:19:00.000-07:00

The water-pouring rituals of Boun Pi Mai celebrations are said to derive from the legend Nang Sangkaan, in which the deity-king Kabinlaphom posed a riddle challenge, offering his own head as the trophy. The wise and blessed Thammapaala solved the riddle and the king made good his promise.

Indonesia: Legend of the Sea Worms

2010-06-23T17:16:00.000-07:00

Variations of the Sea Worms Festival is carried out in different parts of Indonesia including Sumba, Savu and Lombok. In Sumba, collecting the multi-colored sea worm is part of the larger Pasola Festival (colourful war ritual celebration) that is timed to coincide with appearance of the worms. Lombok's Bau Nyale Putri Mandalika Festival or Sea Worms Festival takes place on the 10th month of the Sasak Calendar (usually in February or March) on Kuta Beach and enjoins nature's cycles with folklore and contemporary socialising.

Cambodia: Reversal of the River

2010-06-23T17:14:00.000-07:00

Cambodia's Tonlé Sap is a marvelous topographic feature of the land that encompasses both a lake (‘the Great Lake') and a river system. The largest freshwater lake in Southeast Asia during the monsoon season, it is also a designated UNESCO biosphere reserve. The Tonlé Sap connects to the Mekong River (one of the world's major rivers running at 4,350 kilometres long) and responds to the Mekong's swelling and contraction of water levels.

Brunei Darussalam: Washing of Feet Ceremony

2010-06-23T17:12:00.000-07:00

The Royal Wedding Ceremony in Brunei Darussalam is a stately water procession for the royal couple on a gegandong (royal barge decorated with royal regalia), following the Bersanding Diraja Ceremony (sitting-in-state). The procession takes place along the Brunei River through the water villages accompanied by the musical ensemble, royal musical instruments playing royal songs.

Singapore: Legend of the Oriental Dragon

2010-06-23T07:58:00.000-07:00

The Oriental Dragon, revered as a deeply potent and auspicious symbol, is depicted in Chinese culture as wielding dominion over the weather, rainfall and moving bodies of water (sea, waterfalls, rivers and lakes). The Chinese four Dragon Kings represented the four seas, and could manifest themselves in different shapes including water twisters. Many water-related sacrifices, ceremonies and rites were performed paying homage to this mythical harbinger of rainfall, of which the vigorous dragon boat race was one such festivity.

Thailand: Loy Krathong – Festival of lights

2010-06-23T07:29:00.000-07:00

Celebrated on the full moon of the 12th lunar month (usually November), the festival is one of the best known Thai celebrations in the world. Picturesque banana-leaf floats, ornately decked with flowers and variously shaped as lotuses, swans, zodiac signs or stupas (pagoda-haped structures), are lighted with candles and incense sticks, then set adrift on water in rivers, canals and ponds. Said to have evolved from court rituals, the loy krathong (‘loy' meaning ‘to float' and ‘krathong' is in reference to the floated vessel or boat) ritual bears varying accounts of its origins.

Viet Nam: Firecracker Festival

2010-06-23T07:26:00.000-07:00

Certain agricultural communities in Viet Nam carry out rain rituals for prompt and sufficient rainfall for bountiful crops. The famous Firecracker Festival of the Dong Ky village northeast of Hanoi, Viet Nam, for instance, is said to simulate the sounds of thunder claps, heralding the good fortune of oncoming rains for the farming village.